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Is Internet Dating Not Happening For You? Try This...

by: ChaszeySandhriel
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Has it ever ocurred to you that most profiles are beginning with "I?" And while this may make sense to you, because you are the one looking for true love, this process can be made a lot more enjoyable if you can make it about the other person.

"Dating Online is not about you, it's about the other person you're wanting to attract to you. This is also known as Compound Interest. For a change try to 'Pay it Forward' and watch what happens," Chaszey says.

"What, I have to pay something forward?" you may say.

Think about it. There are more than 10 million Daters registered with Internet Dating sites paying over $2 billion dollars per year in the hopes of finding true love. If everyone is looking for just that one person, the likelihood that we spend most of our time rejecting others and being rejected ourselves is a given. In other words, once your sizzling profile is public, all you can focus on is weeding through the hundreds or even thousands of men and women that flood towards you.

Meanwhile, and until you have found your "one and only," focus on strengthening your own kindness by earning karma points. Every time you need to say "thank you but no thank you," instead of hitting the ready-button, formulate an e-mail that flows with grace and kindness.

"We all have heard the saying that 'what goes out comes back tenfold.' What we tend to forget is that no one should have to earn our kindness and our respect. Everyone deserves these gifts from us for the simplest fact that we share in the same sun light, the same water, the same air, and we all walk pretty similar paths to one another, a journey called life. We have to recognize and never forget that we all are looking for the same thing: Unconditional love," says Chaszey.

Learning how to send graceful rejections that don't feel like rejections to your suiters takes time, effort and a kind heart. Chaszey says: "It's so worth it because soon you realize your positive karma points are subject to compound interest and before you know it your life is changing in dramatic ways that you never dreamed possible. It's hard to explain, but so worth it."

Karma points always add or subtract from our character, and we want to create a stronger and kinder new you, that will attract the person you deserve.

Next time you hit that pre-set "no thank you" button, take some time and study their profile for a few minutes and respond accordingly, filled with your kind thoughts and your best wishes for a fellow being on a similar journey as yours.

Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach and helps Online Daters create sizzling results. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.

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Before you begin with your internet dating profile, make sure you get Chaszey's 7 tips on how to begin with a successful profile that will get you results. You can retrieve the free report and more at www.yourinternetdatingcoach.com.

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