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Cheating On Trust

by: AlexArcher
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The effects of infidelity on kids are probably one of the deepest and most long lasting effects of being unfaithful. It can ingrain in children deep trust issues as well as a feeling of confusion. They may blame themselves. It can also cause problems for them down the road in their relationships.

Many children will look for reasons to blame themselves for their parents' action of infidelity. They will begin to feel guilty for causing the situation at hand, and as a result, will begin to feel confused, angry, and sad. All of these misconceptions become a weak foundation on which their present and future feelings of mistrust are built.

Many children get a sense of security from a strong relationship between their parents. Once their mother and father start exhibiting negative behavior towards one another, children may intentionally misbehave as they become insecure about their future. Even the possibility of an affair can be enough to affect the way a child acts.

The effects of infidelity on kids can also cause them to become detached from their siblings, even aggressive. This results from the lack of trust with one or the other of the parents. The child may blame their sibling or either parent, be it the unfaithful one or not. They wonder what the parent suffering from the infidelity may have done to cause it.

Infidelity can ruin family life at home. Often, parents attempt to put on masks to conceal their problems. However, children can see right through these, and things end up being even worse than before. An atmosphere of instability prevails and negates what the children need the most.

Children of unfaithful parents carry with them feelings of mistrust and jealousy into their own love relationships. They may suffer from the illusion that they are doomed to repeat their parents' patterns, or they may simply believe that they are immune from having a partner that will not do the same thing.

Infidelity can also cause a relationship break between the parent and the child. They may feel anger towards them because they feel as if the parent did this to them, abandoned them. The wounds may heal but more than likely they will never completely heal. The child, even into adulthood, will always remember what happened and wonder.

Even in cases where a couple decides to move past an affair and avoid divorce, their children can still suffer emotional and psychological damage. Reminders and memories of the affair may always loom large, and the children may watch constantly for signs that infidelity may happen once again. It may not be a question of if, but when.

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