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Five Signs Your Partner Is Cheating

by: PaulineStradlen
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If you think your husband might be cheating, give him all the rope he needs to hang himself with conflict. In other words let him make the mistakes that you know he is going to make, don't accuse until you have sufficient proof. The rate of infidelity is rising, so below are some of the top signs that you should look out for to check your cheating partner.

1. 90% of cheaters will do so in our own bed at some time during your relationship. If you suspect your husband has been cheating on you in your own home, try making your bed in a particular way, check it every day, if you're husband has been using it with somebody else, you will know as he will have made differently.

2. Trap him. You should use one of your female friends that you husband does not know to help you with this. Ask your friend to hit on your husband either in a bar or at a party, and have her record the conversation. The best way I found to do this is to have your friend call your answering service as she is talking to your husband. This way you will have solid proof that your husband is cheating.

3. If you man is cheating he won;t be able to resist doing it when you are out of town. So tell your husband that you will be away all weekend, give him exact times when you are leaving and when you expect to be back. Then give him a kiss and go set your trap. All you need to do is wait and watch, you will not need to wait long.

4. It is important that you keep an eye on all your husband's financial transactions. This includes ATM withdrawals, receipts, and credit card statements, keep an eye out for any unusual transactions. You may be lucky and find some obvious evidence such as motel room receipts, or a jeweller's receipts, although you have not had any new jewellery recently. Your husband may be cleverer than this, and could be using cash to buy gifts or pay for things for his new lover. He may give himself away though if he is withdrawing the same sum of money at the same time every week or month, which he will be using to pay for a motel room.

5. Always keep a close eye on his cell phone records, and your home phone records. Look out for repeated calls, or calls that last a long time, or at strange times of the day. Monitor how he uses his cellphone, does he move out of earshot before he answers it? Make note of all the times when his cell phone is turned off, is there a pattern to this?

If you have no concrete information on your husband you can always play the bluff, try saying something like, I know what you've been up to and I will give you one chance to own up and tell me the truth. You may be able to get the information you need, but chances are he will just lie to the bitter end.

I can guarantee you that he will screw up at some point, you may need to be more patient, but stay watchful. You could go out and hire a private investigator, however, this is often expensive and there is still a chance that your husband is not cheating. I advise you to follow the above steps and keep rigorous notes of your findings.

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Pauline Stradlen works as a Private Investigator and runs a website for people who thinks their husband might be cheating . To track your partners phone records visit http://www.answersabc.com

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