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The Game: "Picking up a "10

by: VinDiCarlo
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If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10", then you should read this letter.

But first off, let go waaay back...

When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class who was perfect.

That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can't take my eyes off away from her)...

She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.

Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).

I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly...but I chickened out at the last minute.

It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart...

Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.

I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time, it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.

Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your "perfect girl."

First of all, "10" is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more "valuable".

The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true "10".

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

One recipe for your failure is if you treat a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier than the others.

Why?

Because a lot of guys do that.

The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.

But there definitely are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.

Like I said, you shouldn't treat them "differently."

Let me clarify.

You shouldn't treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.

First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.

She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.

Now for your own sake I'm going to give you a heads up.

There are two types of "10's."

Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.

The common type is the low self-esteem 10's. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn't EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.

It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10's women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.

Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, the most beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.

But here's the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.

The Attraction Code is about being a "male 10," the best man you can be.

When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.

You'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level - it's what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."

The girl will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."

The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you'll also enjoy a lot of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are plenty of 10's out there waiting for you.

Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.

Vin

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