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Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part I

by: VinDiCarlo
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Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all your hard work you're still not getting the success you're looking for?

READ ON if you answered YES those questions.

Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.

You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.

You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.

YOU have to have the courage to approach.

At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.

You know what, the standards for men's behavior are much higher than women.

(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")

Being not "extroverted" by nature can be pretty exhausting.

... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion fatigue" from a client of mine.

I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.

I would take a break and rest!

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.

I'd go home and be absolutely DEAD

... from having a CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN!

Does that make any sense???

As a whole, there is a general dating fatigue. Having a discouraging results, an emotional ups and downs with regards to the hard work and effort that I make just to have a girl to hang out with me or to sleep with me.

I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!

The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).

I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym

I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before.

If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.

About the Author

Vin DiCarlo is a expert dating guru, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.

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