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How to Deal with Male Competition when Meeting Women-II

by: VinDiCarlo
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Another thing that I want to talk about is the idea that the other guy can be more "dominant" than you are.

The alpha male concept is completely obsolete. The alpha male during cavemen days had the real power - they know where to find for resources like food, and they were physically strong enough to compete and win.

But ask yourself if those power still exist today. Every man can survive on his own if he has the source of income - you probably have an access to food and shelter if you're reading this. You're all set.

Plus, in this modern world it is irrelevant to use the physical strength just to beat people up. It's illegal.

It is always to your loss if you attack another person because the police always win.

You are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON! if you are thinking about it.

Pardon my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???

It makes me mad- I recall all the women I missed out on because I was worried about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that other guys are dealing with same crap!

You are going to look back on all the things you did and didn't do, when the time comes that you're on your deathbed. How painful it is to say "I haven't approached that girl because I was scared of another guy," or "I could have enjoyed being with so many beautiful women if only I have approached them even if they were TALKING to another guy."

I don't want to happen that to you.

So let's analyze it deeply. You truly don't understand dominance if you are seeing the other guy as more dominant.

There's a better focus. Rather than to see yourself NOT dominant when you are comparing who is more dominant between you and the other guy.

Dominant men don't think about who is dominant. To be dominant, you must first THINK like a dominant man. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is they are doing or want.

You see a group of girls talking to another guy. Instead of being concerned with who is more dominant between the two of you, just stay focus on the girls.

It's proven to be a waste of time if I have to acknowledge other guys. Out of 10 women, 9 of them doesn't even know the guy - they just meet him.

Or if they do know the guy, it's because he was a friend of ONE of the girls, and the rest barely know him.

It's rare for girls to go out with a guy they are dating - usually they will bring a guy who is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.

Besides, if he IS with one of the girls, that means he's NOT with the other girls - they are fair game.

You are NOT the alpha male by definition, if you are concerned with who's the alpha male is. In fact, in this modern world it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist .

Have your focus in a USEFUL place and don't assume anything. And don't let some random guy prevent you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!

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